Love - agape - is patient and kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends."
Reference 》1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Love can't #only be contingent upon "feelings". Feelings and moods can change easily - therefore, we have to allow the agape love of God to be embedded into your heart in order to love from His standard.
Living selfless is a learned characteristic that comes from a place of humility.
Prayer: Lord, endow me with the fruit of the spirit. Teach me how to love and walk according to your ways.